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  1. jhavs

    jhavs Grand Pooh-Bah (3,587) Apr 16, 2015 New York
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    #61 jhavs, Mar 13, 2020
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  2. 7irondave

    7irondave Pooh-Bah (1,918) Jun 22, 2016 Massachusetts
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    #62 7irondave, Mar 13, 2020
  3. sjguglielmo

    sjguglielmo Zealot (522) Aug 26, 2009 Minnesota
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    Sure, you haven't explicitly said you're refusing to leave feedback. I'm interpreting your failure to leave feedback when you received your box a week ago -- after waiting months for the BT to ship it -- as a refusal to leave feedback. It took prodding on your part, months of waiting, and creating a BT thread for you to finally get your box. I sympathize with you on this...that sucks. Earlier in this thread I think you also said that the box didn't even contain all the agreed-upon beer. How could your feedback be anything other than negative, and how could you need 1-2 additional weeks to come to this conclusion?
     
    #63 sjguglielmo, Mar 13, 2020
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  4. Rustytacos

    Rustytacos Initiate (0) Mar 19, 2018 California
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    He didn’t leave because he responded to the thread I thought he left. For some reason it didn’t show up. Not sure what happened. That’s my fault, but we are in contact and it’s moving along.
     
    #64 Rustytacos, Mar 13, 2020
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  5. Rustytacos

    Rustytacos Initiate (0) Mar 19, 2018 California
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    My fault, just clarified it. Not sure why I couldn’t see the original message. Didn’t mean to add fuel to the fire and I will continue messaging through dm.
     
    #65 Rustytacos, Mar 13, 2020
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  6. SierraNevallagash

    SierraNevallagash Initiate (0) Sep 23, 2018 Maine
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    @MattOC
    That never happened. That conversation has been open and active since he messaged me. Maybe he misunderstood my first reply, but we cleared that up pretty quickly. Perhaps because I stopped replying when I fell asleep, paired with the context of the conversation, but no. No conversations were ever left, or not replied to.

    This is precisely why I have to keep defending myself. Because false claims and assumptions are made.

    He shouldn't have to explain himself to get brought into this thread, but I can promise you he'd say I never left the conversation. I always reply to offers, even if the trade is closed or I'm not interested.
     
    #66 SierraNevallagash, Mar 13, 2020
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  7. MattOC

    MattOC Pooh-Bah (2,100) Jan 13, 2013 Massachusetts
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    it’s been cleared up, but I was merely going off of his statement that you left when you were asking for names. Blame him, not me.
     
    #67 MattOC, Mar 13, 2020
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  8. MattOC

    MattOC Pooh-Bah (2,100) Jan 13, 2013 Massachusetts
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    thanks @jhavs I copied the thread link, but failed to post it with my reply.
     
    #68 MattOC, Mar 13, 2020
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  9. SierraNevallagash

    SierraNevallagash Initiate (0) Sep 23, 2018 Maine
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    No, you're right. I have been convinced that negative feedback is not only the right course of action, but also informed that anything else could even be seen as "inappropriate feedback". If I had no intention of leaving feedback, I wouldn't have been spending time asking for advice about what feedback to leave. It'd be nice if more than 140 were allowed - not just for bad trades, but for exceptionally great ones. I'll leave feedback tonight or tomorrow, but despite what @William_Navidson said, I cannot believe that all this pushback is due to the feedback issue. I will issue every single one of these guys a sincere formal apolgy if the trolling and harassment stops after I leave feedback, but I am confident that this is much more personal than that. Trolls love being trolls.

    I once saw this site and community as a safe haven and a beer home away from home. Because of this, I feel unwelcome in what was one my most welcoming place. I do hope that's worth it, and that everyone involved in this is happy and proud of that.
     
    #69 SierraNevallagash, Mar 13, 2020
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  10. forum8417

    forum8417 Zealot (715) Feb 1, 2011 New Jersey
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    Holy hell, you can end all of this if you just leave your feedback. You whine and complain about being the victim and BT not catching crap but you literally can change that in a second. To say that BA is no longer your "safe space" is comical. You literally have brought this upon yourself. leave the feedback and put this in the past.
     
    #70 forum8417, Mar 13, 2020
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  11. sjguglielmo

    sjguglielmo Zealot (522) Aug 26, 2009 Minnesota
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    It sucks that you feel this way, and I honestly hope this changes for you. Glad to hear that you'll be leaving negative feedback for the BT.
     
    #71 sjguglielmo, Mar 13, 2020
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  12. jamshard2mash

    jamshard2mash Initiate (0) May 4, 2017 California
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    Neg feedback has been left, everyone move on with their lives
     
    #72 jamshard2mash, Mar 13, 2020
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  13. colby600

    colby600 Pooh-Bah (1,919) Mar 24, 2015 Connecticut
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    #73 colby600, Mar 13, 2020
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  14. forum8417

    forum8417 Zealot (715) Feb 1, 2011 New Jersey
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    This is like on of those moments where I'll always remember where I was when I read that @SierraNevallagash had finally left negative feedback for BT.
     
    #74 forum8417, Mar 13, 2020
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