Delivery room craft beer: commitment or time to seek help?

Discussion in 'Beer Talk' started by Flabbyjandro, Sep 11, 2014.

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  1. FATC1TY

    FATC1TY Pooh-Bah (2,564) Feb 12, 2012 Georgia
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    Not crazy..

    Short story-

    I was mega late to pack my "hospital" bag because I felt it would make my twins come even earlier than expected. Well, one day I was at work, wife went for a check up and boom.. in the hospital. Gonna show up anyday.

    I finished up at work, packed my bag at home, and put some good cellar stuff in the fridges to chill down when I make it back home.. Whenever that was.

    Drove into Atlanta, and decided to grab dinner for her and I, and her mother who was in town by now.

    Decided that pizza wasn't enough, and stopped at my local bottle shop in town and STOCKED UP. I bought anything and everything, it was a panic'd and nervous time for me, and it was all I knew to do. Spend money and beer.

    To shorten the story, I didn't buy to share with anyone. I also didn't want to drink in the hospital, as my wife worked there, so I didn't want to cause any issues. But I drank like crazy in the parking deck before going in. I was terrified. I was totally tired and busy during the whole 3 days there, that I didn't drink anything and never thought of it.

    Kids were born, everything was great, and I couldn't wait to get them home and hold my kids, even if I didn't have a free hand to sip on something good.

    Now my little guys like to go through the boxes I send out to trade, and play with the bottles and cans.

    Enjoy the time.. it's special, and beer isn't but icing on an already sweet cake. My little guys are my world.
     
    #41 FATC1TY, Sep 12, 2014
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  2. rightcoast7

    rightcoast7 Maven (1,330) Apr 2, 2011 Maine
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    Holy shit are you in for a world of hurt. Having babies is the most amazing experience you will probably ever have, but you will likely be fucking exhausted and far beyond the point where you will be thinking about which whale to crack in the delivery room. Depending on the delivery, good chance you will be at 24 hours or more without sleep by the time you think about opening anything.

    I'd drink a beer, maybe, but then you'll just want to sleep, trust me.

    Congratulations and enjoy the ride!
     
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  3. Flabbyjandro

    Flabbyjandro Initiate (0) Jun 12, 2012 Illinois

    Good stuff here all around. My little man came out in good health, all his fingers and toes, wife is doing great and couldn't be more shell shocked of what took place. Finally got a bite a and can't lie, having a CBS watching him and my wife sleep is pretty sweet...

    And I checked with the staff, people celebrate with champagne all the time, I'm the first guy with stouts apparently though :-)
     
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  4. Seanhand_atl

    Seanhand_atl Initiate (0) Mar 29, 2014 Georgia

    Cheers mate, I am happy to hear everything is fine! Enjoy the fun a child can bring now, and save the beer for the stress they bring later.
     
  5. TheBeerDad

    TheBeerDad Initiate (0) Sep 6, 2012 Michigan

    Very different...
     
  6. jbakajust1

    jbakajust1 Pooh-Bah (2,552) Aug 25, 2009 Oregon
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    Wait until they get old enough to help brew. My oldest (4.5 now) started as a bottling assistant, now he cleans Better Bottles and brews his own beer with me on brewday (mixes spent grains and hops in water in a pot and plays in it).
     
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  7. SammyJaxxxx

    SammyJaxxxx Initiate (0) Feb 23, 2012 New Jersey

    Congratulations on your boy. I am so glad to hear that everyone is doing fine.
    My girls are 4 and 2 and there isn't a night that goes by that I don't check in and watch them sleep for at least a few minutes. Everyone once and a while one of them will fall asleep in the family room and there are not many things better than sitting there enjoying a beer and watching them sleep.
    Cheers
    ...and get some rest while you can, you are going to need it.
     
  8. pitweasel

    pitweasel Initiate (0) Jun 11, 2007 New York

    How so? Genuinely curious as what difference there would be between popping a bottle of Chimay Blue or something versus popping a bottle of sparkling wine?
     
  9. wifehatesthebike

    wifehatesthebike Zealot (534) Oct 11, 2008 Michigan

    I brought a single bottle of GI Sofie to drink in our room a couple hours after delivery of my daughter Sophie. Had to do it. My wife was fine with it but I'm not sure I'd feel right drinking much more than that.
     
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  10. Flabbyjandro

    Flabbyjandro Initiate (0) Jun 12, 2012 Illinois

    I'd disagree, in the words of the Big Lebowski "that's like your opinion man".

    I'd say I over planned and over prepared to the point I knew I'd want to cherish the moment in my own special way.

    Night kids, gotta be up in an hour to help feed the baby. Totes
     
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  11. BeerWizard

    BeerWizard Pundit (889) Dec 22, 2012 Colorado

    My mother in law brought me a six of NB Trippel the next day. I don't really remember much else since I didn't sleep for about three days but what a gesture.
     
  12. daves1186

    daves1186 Initiate (0) Jan 7, 2011 Pennsylvania

  13. gothedistance

    gothedistance Initiate (0) Jul 23, 2009 South Carolina

    Congratulations! I have 3 kids (including a set of twins) and we never thought to bring an adult beverage to celebrate. I'm not sure how I would've felt at the time, all up on painkillers and such, if my man cracked a rare beer while I was deliriously tired. If she's into craft, how about you open one each Friday night over the next few weeks and enjoy an hour of quiet time together? (Quiet time is next to impossible to come by with an infant, but we could usually catch a break around 7/8 pm)
     
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  14. ChrisMyhre

    ChrisMyhre Initiate (0) Sep 15, 2013 Massachusetts

    Didn't cross my mind to bring anything to the hospital with either kid. My wide does love Sam Summer though and was pregnant for it's entire shelf life this year. A friend brought a case to the hospital as a present for her, she didn't even think about cracking one, but the reaction varying by nurse was pretty funny. The first offered to put a few on ice and bring a church key. The second had snide comments like she thought we planned on drinking the whole case and passing out in the room.
     
  15. JamesShoemaker

    JamesShoemaker Initiate (0) Sep 21, 2012 Michigan

    This is the humblest of all humblebrags...

    But seriously, congrats OP. I wish we were friends so that I could share in your joy with you (read: CBS).
     
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  16. LutherBrau

    LutherBrau Initiate (0) Sep 1, 2014 Massachusetts

    I plan on doing something similar as goodbye send-off for all my free-time when that day comes. Congrats OP!
     
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  17. Andrew041180

    Andrew041180 Initiate (0) Mar 15, 2013 Massachusetts

    Never occurred to me to bring beer to the hospital. I did sneak out the second day and bought a six pack of "normal beer" (Stone Pale Ale) and ended up bringing half of it home with me. Too many other things to focus on while you're learning to be a parent to concern oneself with beer. Just my two cents.
     
  18. Dil_thebeerdrinking_do

    Dil_thebeerdrinking_do Savant (1,192) Jan 21, 2014 Georgia
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    First off: If your wife is cool with that, then you win at life
    Secondly: I would take some everyday drinking beers for the waiting room 0__o
     
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  19. LeRose

    LeRose Grand Pooh-Bah (4,423) Nov 24, 2011 Massachusetts
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    Truth. Mine now bring me beer and do things like spring for tickets for beer dinners. Me? I am wondering where the time went...

    @Flabbyjandro - congrats to you and your wife. Enjoy it - it's hard work and every gray hair is earned, but there is no doubt that time flies. Cherish each moment - every day is truly a new day.
     
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  20. 5thOhio

    5thOhio Pooh-Bah (1,571) May 13, 2007 South Carolina
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    Don't hospitals in Ireland still give nursing mothers Guinness?
     
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