Trade Failure - Need Help

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  1. DVMin98

    DVMin98 Grand Pooh-Bah (5,125) Nov 1, 2010 North Carolina
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    So I recently made a trade with someone and we talked about one beer, but I changed my mind because I didn't think I would like it. So, we agreed on 2 of something else. My box arrived and the original beer was in the box. I told him the mistake and he asked me to send it back and he would send the others.

    I really don't want to send the first bottle back and incur the expense, unless he's willing to pony up for the postage. Should I just say f it and keep the bottle or should I just ask him to send one (1/2 the agree upon amount) of the second options (which would be about the same as my return postage)?

    The whole thing has been kinda sketchy from the get go.
     
  2. Krumb

    Krumb Initiate (0) Jan 30, 2008 Texas

    have him create a shipping label (print it as a .pdf) and then email it to you. send it back, he sends the beers you agreed upon.

    boom.

    maybe he'll throw some nice extras in for the trouble. i would if i made the mistake.
     
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  3. sandiego67

    sandiego67 Initiate (0) Feb 25, 2008 California

    Seems like a minor problem. I'm sure you and Elbrooksie can work it out.
     
  4. cbeer88

    cbeer88 Initiate (0) Sep 5, 2007 Massachusetts

    Up to you really. It's his mistake, and he needs to fix it at his cost. This is, of course, assuming your negotiations were clear. (Which is not always the case)

    That said, assuming we're not talking about long-retired rarities, paying to ship back one bottle is a little ridiculous. What I would do if I were him is just send you the 2 beers and say "keep the error" as an extra. Likewise, if you're feeling generous/adventurous, you may just want to keep the bottle you did receive instead of the 2 others and you might like it more than you thought.
     
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  5. Bad_Trader

    Bad_Trader Initiate (0) Nov 8, 2012 Namibia

    What are the beers we're talking about here?
     
  6. DVMin98

    DVMin98 Grand Pooh-Bah (5,125) Nov 1, 2010 North Carolina
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    It's not elbrooksie. He's been great. And even if it was him (which it isn't) why call him out?
     
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  7. gklover1

    gklover1 Zealot (555) Oct 18, 2009 Colorado

    Once I shipped two boxes to the wrong folks. Not only did I send labels (all my expense) to each of them to correct the mistake, I also sent each of them one of the beers from the other's box, as they liked what they saw when they opened it.

    This is the correct path.

    If this trader won't minimally cover whatever expenses it takes to correct their error, add them to your profile as "be careful when trading" and cut your losses.

    But, first, at least reach out to them and give them the chance.

    Good luck!!
     
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  8. DVMin98

    DVMin98 Grand Pooh-Bah (5,125) Nov 1, 2010 North Carolina
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    Sexual chocolate for a Menagerie #8. But then decided on 2 world wide stout. I'm not a big wine fan so wasn't big on the Menageri
     
  9. DVMin98

    DVMin98 Grand Pooh-Bah (5,125) Nov 1, 2010 North Carolina
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    And I know this is a small insignificant trade
     
  10. cbeer88

    cbeer88 Initiate (0) Sep 5, 2007 Massachusetts

    After seeing that, he should absolutely just send you the two WWS's and just let you keep the Menagerie. WWS is a perma-shelf beer, of varying vintages. Sexual Chocolate is a limited release with pretty high trade value, so he got a great deal here any way you slice it. Least he can do is make it right. If he really wants the Menagerie back, there's nothing wrong with that, but it would be on his dime.
     
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  11. DVMin98

    DVMin98 Grand Pooh-Bah (5,125) Nov 1, 2010 North Carolina
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    Yeah it is, but I had a shit ton of it and we can't get WWS here in NC due to the ABV
     
  12. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    As long as it was clear you didn't want the first beer and he clearly agreed to send you two WWS, then the error is on him and he should do as others have said and either just send the WWS and let you keep the original beer as a bonus, or send the label to cover the wrong beer he sent being sent back.

    Without seeing the conversation I can't judge either way.
     
  13. DVMin98

    DVMin98 Grand Pooh-Bah (5,125) Nov 1, 2010 North Carolina
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    1. Menagerie #8 for SC.

      will have out soon.

      cheers

    1. dvmin98Member


      Can you send something else? Im not a big wine fan, I know Men 8 is aged in wine barrels​


    couple bottles of wws?​
    1. dvmin98Member


      That works​
     
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  14. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    Case closed, he's on the hook to get you your WWS, whether he lets you keep the Menagerie or sends you the label to send it back to him is up to him. If he wants to make up for the mistake he'd let you keep it.
     
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  15. videofrog

    videofrog Maven (1,256) Nov 13, 2010 Texas
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    FWIW, just completed a trade with OP and communication was great. Hopefully the other party will make it right.
     
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  16. axeman9182

    axeman9182 Initiate (0) Aug 5, 2009 New Jersey

    What I would suggest to make shipping palatable it to try and work out another trade (maybe just locals for locals), and then just swap the Menagerie for the two WWS in addition.
     
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  17. kbuzz

    kbuzz Initiate (0) Jan 22, 2011 North Carolina

    This is the perfect solution.
     
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  18. Hopsiam14

    Hopsiam14 Initiate (0) Jan 23, 2013 Minnesota

    I drifted off at Natalie Portman and RR... What were you saying?
     
  19. gklover1

    gklover1 Zealot (555) Oct 18, 2009 Colorado

    I am getting tired reading this thread. Did you reach out to him yet? If not, pls post your address so I can send you 2x WWS and end this. :astonished:
     
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  20. DVMin98

    DVMin98 Grand Pooh-Bah (5,125) Nov 1, 2010 North Carolina
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    Yep, I did even before I posted this, but he didnt respond til this morning.
     
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