Decicco's in Armonk has 3 types of the Eclipse stouts Java Rye Four Roses It's a bit pricey at $32.99 a bottle but it's the only place I've seen it in the NYC/Westchester areas Picked up 2 bottles of the Java and plan on cracking one open tomorrow for the Super Bowl
Armonk is "upstate"? Lol. Both The Party Source and Brilbecks in Syracuse have a decent variety and selection of it; $27.99 for all varities if my memory serves me correctly.
This is from their fb page(s). The same guy owns both stores so I would have to believe that inventory at either is going to be approximately the same.
The gift bottle in 2012 was 'Coffee Eclipse'. Full production run 2013. 2013 gift bottle was Vanilla Eclipse.... 2014...exactly!!