Redeemed Trader: Pizzapie?

Discussion in 'Bad Traders' started by BrownAleMale, Jun 24, 2015.

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  1. BrownAleMale

    BrownAleMale Initiate (0) Dec 14, 2011 Wisconsin

    So, I set up a trade 5:3 NG fruits for Stickee Monkeys. We agreed to a ship date. I shipped mine and sent him a message with the shipping info. He replied that he was called into work Saturday early so he couldn't ship. Mine were due in on that Monday. I get a message mid day from him saying he got the box but 2 bottles were broke and that he had planned on Shipping mine that same day but since he got mine and it had 2 broken bottles, didn't ship and wanted to see what I was gonna do about it.

    I at first got really defensive because I've shipped over 25 boxes and never had a break and have shipped and packed the exact way each time. I told him that I thought he had scammed me and the time line and his vibe seemed off. I told him that I would claim my insurance on the package and make a bad trader thread, but he assured me he had proof and wasn't scamming. I thought about it and decided to give him a chance as he may not have been scamming me as I had suspected.

    I messaged him back appologizing for jumpING to conclusions. I suggested 3 ways we could go about fixing the problem.
    1) that we prorate our deal subtracting a Stickee Monkey for the broken bottle.
    2) That he send the 3 SM and when I receive them that I would send out the replacement bottles. I would wait to get the SMS because obviously the last thing I would want to do is send him more beer and get nothing.
    3) If he wouldn't work with me, I'd collect the insurance and make a bad trader thread.

    He seemed resistant to send out any SMS and said that he would cooperate with the investigation for an insurance claim on it. He has also said he has proof that the bottles broke but has yet to do so.

    So my question is where do I go from here? I'm in a weird spot because he may be truthful, but his actions and responses seem odd and not willing to even send a prorated amount of SMS makes me kind of believe that he made up the story about bottles breaking in attempt to get out of sending me anything.
     
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  2. mythaeus

    mythaeus Pooh-Bah (2,074) Jul 22, 2013 Pennsylvania
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    How is his trade history? 2 IP trades with 100%? :wink:

    I feel like at this point you may as well tag him to hear his side of the story. Without proofs of broken bottles and you're basically out of the beers you sent without any guarantee of getting anything in return, there's not much else you can do.
     
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  3. Dan_Inreallife

    Dan_Inreallife Initiate (0) Jan 22, 2012 Colorado

    Did he take pictures of the broken bottles? Seems like that should be the very first thing any trader should do in the case of agreed-upon bottles being damaged, simply to avoid any sense of impropriety...
     
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  4. Iamjeff6

    Iamjeff6 Initiate (0) Sep 9, 2013 Virginia

    I think this could of been/ can be handled better by both parties.

    How can you claim insurance on a package when it was delivered?
     
  5. KSOZE

    KSOZE Initiate (0) Feb 10, 2015 Ohio

    Yes, if I received a box with broken bottles, the very first thing I would do is take pictures without moving anything else around to show the sender the damage. If he doesn't have pics, I'd be skeptical.
     
  6. mlhyatt

    mlhyatt Initiate (0) Jul 27, 2013 Georgia

    No pics of broken bottles/no replacement. He should also include his BA username in the picture of the broken bottles.
     
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  7. mlhyatt

    mlhyatt Initiate (0) Jul 27, 2013 Georgia

    I'm pretty sure you can't even claim insurance on alcohol period. Since it's against their TOS they can refuse to pay.
     
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  8. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
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    Sounds to me like you unfairly put him on the defensive by assuming he scammed you. Just because you have sent out 25 boxes before and they have never broke doesn't mean box 26 couldn't have a problem. Broken bottles happens to the best traders with the most well packed boxes.
     
  9. rozzom

    rozzom Pooh-Bah (2,620) Jan 22, 2011 New York
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    Just tag him to avoid two pages of conjecture and then tagging him
     
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  10. JohnGalt1

    JohnGalt1 Grand Pooh-Bah (3,880) Aug 10, 2005 Idaho
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    Personally, I would not out him yet.

    That said, there is NO WAY IN HELL that any reasonable person would not take a series of photos IMMEDIATELY if the bottles were broken.

    Were the bottles packed well enough that 1500 ml of thick, sticky beer would be contained in the box? If not, then a wet, stinky and sticky box was delivered.... And I find that hard to believe that it would have been delivered WITHOUT any sort of shipping exception showing up in the tracking info.

    This is all just conjecture, but is my experience.
     
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  11. BrownAleMale

    BrownAleMale Initiate (0) Dec 14, 2011 Wisconsin

    I agree that I could have handled it better in the beginning. I can claim insurance on broken/damaged items. This is the last option though.
     
  12. BrownAleMale

    BrownAleMale Initiate (0) Dec 14, 2011 Wisconsin

    Is it unreasonable that I ask him to ship with an agreement to send replacement bottles when I receive my package? I've shown no cause for concern that I will re ship. I sent on time with agreed upon items, where as he misees the shipping date. I don't think this was an unfair solution, or at minimum to just ship one less SM? Am I out of bounds with thinking these are 2 good solutions?
     
  13. nmyers462000

    nmyers462000 Initiate (0) Oct 1, 2013 Florida

    Approach with a stance that you are willing to replace, but you need the pics of the broken bottles.

    Once you get the pics, assuming they are satisfactory, work it out with him. You may agree that replacement box and his box must ship the same day, or not. But this sounds like you have incomplete information, and so do we when giving opinions/advice.
     
  14. rozzom

    rozzom Pooh-Bah (2,620) Jan 22, 2011 New York
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    It all sounds overly complicated to me. He should send a pic of the broken bottles, and once done, then he simultaneously ships you what he owes, and you ship the replacements (assuming you have / can replace them). Job done
     
  15. dtjager

    dtjager Initiate (0) May 20, 2014 Illinois

    You're not out of bounds there. Pretty bad call jumping straight to an accusation but I still think it's up to the other trader to provide a picture and make good on at least part of the trade. We're not talking ultra rare or expensive beers here, seems like it should be easily solved. Good luck!
     
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  16. BrownAleMale

    BrownAleMale Initiate (0) Dec 14, 2011 Wisconsin

    I can replace them, just don't feel comfortable sending until I get some shipping info on his side. He already has 3/4 of are agreed trade and is refusing to ship out his side because he has broken bottles. I have pause because all I need to do is send out the replacements and get nothing if he doesn't ship again. Agreeing upon a simultaneous day is fine but what if he doesn't ship again? I've shown that I'll live up to my side, him not so much.
     
  17. rozzom

    rozzom Pooh-Bah (2,620) Jan 22, 2011 New York
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    I mean it's a badly handled situation all round. He should have shipped when he said he would. You should have given him the benefit of the doubt when he first said the bottles were broken. He should have immediately sent a couple of pics as evidence, etc etc.

    That's why I reckon tag him and get his side - it's not really "outing" him per se. I mean once his side is clear maybe it will imply you are at fault - who knows. But currently it's just guesswork. If you tag him then one way or the other it will get sorted.
     
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  18. beernuts

    beernuts Initiate (0) Jan 23, 2014 Virginia

    Even if he did recieve broken bottles, its not justification for not shipping his portion of the trade. It should have already been shipped before he recieved his box. You obviously upheld your end of the deal, he should uphold his and give you the opportunity to replace the broken bottles (after he provides proof). I think this sounds very fishy, especially with no proof of breakage.
     
  19. evilcatfish

    evilcatfish Pooh-Bah (2,116) May 11, 2012 Missouri
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    Did the dude take any pics of the broken bottles or not? The answer to this question will determine a lot. Multiple people are wondering, whats the deal???

    ^ Though in no way am I saying its an excuse for not shipping on time or now (unless you told him you can't replace the broken ones)
     
  20. pagriley

    pagriley Pooh-Bah (2,382) Oct 27, 2014 Illinois
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    Agreed with the pics - if I got a package and it seemed fine, but when I opened there was beer and broken glass - first thing would be a text of the pics to my partner. It isn't about trust, it is about transparency.

    I would have a hard time believing that FedEx delivered a package of 5 bottles with 2 broken, and there was no outside damage to the box. It should have been soaking wet and dripping beer unless you water-proof all your packaging.
     
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