Bad trader @jd_bamd2k

Discussion in 'Bad Traders' started by TheKlevin, Jun 20, 2016.

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  1. F2brewers

    F2brewers Maven (1,432) Mar 12, 2005 Massachusetts
    Society Trader

    Really, @jd_bamd2k ? You're tagged as a bad trader, don't respond and you're still viewing trading threads?

    The clock is ticking on your account status. Respond or you're done here.
     
  2. Yabu

    Yabu Savant (1,150) Feb 4, 2015 California
    Trader

    sorry to hear @TheKlevin .
    I hope it gets resolved peacefully.
     
  3. SammyJaxxxx

    SammyJaxxxx Initiate (0) Feb 23, 2012 New Jersey

    So @jd_bamd2k Came on 4 hours ago and has ignored this thread.
    My guess is he has no intention of sending you your beer.
     
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  4. SammyJaxxxx

    SammyJaxxxx Initiate (0) Feb 23, 2012 New Jersey

    So @jd_bamd2k You were in again last night. Any chance you are going to explain how you are going to make this right?
    There is no reason not to slap this guy with a bad trader tag.
     
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  5. Dicers

    Dicers Grand Pooh-Bah (3,436) Sep 2, 2012 California
    Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    He has the tag already
     
  6. TheKlevin

    TheKlevin Initiate (0) Aug 6, 2014 Michigan
    Trader

    Update: he has contacted me, took full responsibility and says he will ship fresh growlers immediately. I will post when they arrive
     
  7. Dicers

    Dicers Grand Pooh-Bah (3,436) Sep 2, 2012 California
    Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    It's great he has contacted you but the fact he has completely ignored this thread means A LOT
     
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  8. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    If you adjust the feedback for him, do the trading community a favor and leave feedback that reflects what happened here. Maybe include this link in feedback.
     
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  9. ndepriest

    ndepriest Zealot (714) Feb 21, 2012 Georgia
    Trader

    I think the BT tag should stay unless/until he comes in here to answer.
     
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  10. blassor

    blassor Pundit (980) Sep 2, 2010 New Jersey
    Trader

    It's amazing that he finally responded after all this happened. What are the chances. :rolling_eyes:
     
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  11. Dicers

    Dicers Grand Pooh-Bah (3,436) Sep 2, 2012 California
    Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    We're in agreement
     
  12. John_M

    John_M Grand High Pooh-Bah (6,849) Oct 25, 2003 Washington
    Mod Team Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    Indeed.

    When a thread like this is started, it seems to me you have three possible options. You can come on here and explain your side of the story; you can come on here, apologize to the community, and explain that you're working with the "injured party," and plan to make things right ASAP; or you can ignore the thread completely and go about your business.

    The latter option is clearly the worst, as it's impossible NOT to make a pretty negative inference based on this behavior. While it's nice when a BT finally owns up to his mistakes and reaches out to his trading partner (as it appears the BT has done in this case), even then, it's hard to be very forgiving or understanding when no explanation is provided by the BT, and it appears the only reason he's giving his trading partner the time of day is because this thread was started.

    That seems fairly obvious, yet again and again, option three seems to be the preferred choice in most of the BT threads I've seen of late.
     
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  13. jd_bamd2k

    jd_bamd2k Initiate (0) Mar 4, 2016 California

    Yeah I went ahead and contacted the person involved and not all of you. Sorry i went straight to the person involved, figure it was best to respond to him first. I told him I was at fault and didn't mean to take this long. I have my reasons. I'm not gonna give any excuses on here . Don't think you wanna here any either. I take full responsibility and understand his reason for posting me up on here and I am trying to make it right send out his stuff yesterday with a extras for the trouble on my end. Honestly I'm not a thief or anything like that all the trades I've done on here have been good. I'm at fault for this one. I own up to the mistake and apologised to the party involved. I don't want to be hated in this community I love the beer community. Should have posted up on here earlier. Sorry guys. Just felt if I posted on here I was gonna get hate.
     
  14. Dicers

    Dicers Grand Pooh-Bah (3,436) Sep 2, 2012 California
    Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    So many things on this....

    Most importantly, thank you for finally coming forward. As much "hate" as you're going to get it is only exacerbated when you don't say anything at all. Most of the communnity just wants to hear your side of the story.

    Thank you also for owning the mistake. You're right we've all heard a plethora of excuses so just owning the fact that you made a mistake goes A LONG way.

    The beer community never wants to hate anyone. We just have to self police since there isn't much other way to protect one another.

    Glad you have gotten in contact with OP and are sending extras to compensate for tardiness.

    Next time remember to just stay in better communication if issues arise and more often than not someone is not going to post a BT thread and if they do and you have been good communication a lot of the time the community will back you.

    Happy this will end with OP getting beer.
     
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  15. jd_bamd2k

    jd_bamd2k Initiate (0) Mar 4, 2016 California

    Yeah Ill make sure in the future to stay in better communication with the intended party and keep them updated so that this doesn't happen again and I get what you mean on self police there is no way for anyone to be sure their gonna get their stuff if you guys don't cracked down on it and don't let it happen. It was never my intention to come up on someone's beer without sending them their's. Just shouldnt have made the trade if I was gonna be unavailable to send out or respond in a timely manner and for that I'm sorry.
     
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  16. Dicers

    Dicers Grand Pooh-Bah (3,436) Sep 2, 2012 California
    Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    Do yourself a favor and get an avatar too
     
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  17. jd_bamd2k

    jd_bamd2k Initiate (0) Mar 4, 2016 California

    Yeah I will do that. Thanks
     
  18. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    Good of you to show up here with your side of story.

    As others have stated, hate is far worse when people don't show up than when they do. Lesson learned.
     
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  19. Vivified

    Vivified Initiate (0) Jul 9, 2014 California

    Pretty much every BT thread always comes around to proper communication. I've missed ship days before, but I always let my trade partner know ASAP and get the box out the next chance I get(usually the next day). I've yet to have an issue, but I keep communication a #1 priority. I'd bet I've annoyed my trade partners at times with updates.
     
  20. jd_bamd2k

    jd_bamd2k Initiate (0) Mar 4, 2016 California

    Yes i definetly see that. Thanks
     
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