Bad Trader: @Kevin-1989

Discussion in 'Bad Traders' started by TheTruth, Aug 22, 2016.

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  1. TheTruth

    TheTruth Initiate (0) Oct 13, 2015 Wisconsin

    I've had an open trade for roughly 7 weeks now and was hoping to get some other BA's insight on what I should do. We agreed to do an IP since we live within 90 mins of each other and opened a trade officially on the site here. The first week he was in Puerto Rico and the second week I was in Europe so we agreed to do the trade when I came back.

    Upon arriving home I messaged him on BA that I was back, etc. and when would be a good time to meetup. He read my message and never responded. I texted him on his phone a week later and he never responded to that. I texted him another few days later like "hey what's up dude are you alive still" and he finally responded that his brother came over and they drank it together but that he was searching for a new one because he had a friend with two extra of the beer in our trade.

    Flash forward another week or so and again he didn't respond. I sent him message on BA telling him I was going to leave feedback if I didn't hear from him and to this day he still hasn't read that message.

    I sent him one final text and his only response was "Sorry man I wasn't able to locate another." I gave him one last opportunity to make good by asking him if he had anything comparable to replace his beer with (judging from his trade activity on BA I believe he has a decent cellar) because I didn't really want to get into a confrontation over a trade going bad. Again, his response was (imo) a bit less than what I had hoped for someone who drank a beer they accepted a trade on. "Maybe but I'm in Texas right now" was his only reply. I asked him when he would be back etc. and he never responded. That was 3 days ago and when I asked him if he was home this morning he didn't respond either.

    I know that may have been a bit long winded but I wanted the entire story as accurate as possible. I'm not out any beer so I'm not extremely angry. But, on the other hand, it's pretty shitty to drink a beer you agreed to, and opened a trade for and then show no urgency or any want to rectify or fix the situation. Is this a negative or neutral feedback situation? Thanks guys!
     
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  2. maximum12

    maximum12 Grand Pooh-Bah (4,686) Jan 21, 2008 Minnesota
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    This is the fourth longest running debate on BA.

    To me it's neutral feedback. No beer was lost, somebody didn't not replace a broken bottle, or had to be publicly shamed to follow through on a trade. But still, if I was going to set up a trade with this person, I'd want to know that they don't always follow through & drink bottles already promised to someone else.

    The only unfortunate thing is that neutral feedback doesn't ding a person's 100% rating, but that just means we should all be scanning all feedback before trading.
     
  3. macrosmatic

    macrosmatic Pooh-Bah (2,735) Mar 9, 2006 Florida
    BA4LYFE Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    OK, now I'm curious! What's in your top three longest??
     
  4. Heretic42

    Heretic42 Savant (1,118) Aug 31, 2011 Texas

    Assuming the feedback system thread is up to date, neither is appropriate:

     
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  5. Justdoit1234

    Justdoit1234 Initiate (0) Jan 24, 2014 Minnesota
    Trader

    Leave neutral. He's a scumbag. While most might not read feedback and only notice 100% I do and don't care about 100% if yo comments flawed.

    Read the shit (feedback)
    :slight_smile:
     
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  6. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
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    Negative. As soon as someone accepts a trade, if they don't actually follow through on their end of the deal and circumstances warrant, negative feedback is fair game.

    He drank your beer, had poor communication, this is a negative trade and people need to be aware of people like this.
     
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  7. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
    Trader

    I definitely agree with @jrnyc that *negative* is warranted and IMO should be the appropriate feedback left for the trader.

    No disrespect to the peeps that said "nuetral", but an agreement was made and broken. Purely based on *principle* alone, the trader breached the contract and should get what they rightfully deserve, irregardless if any beers were exchanged or not.

    Add to the mix, that the agreed upon beer for trade after an agreement was made...was drank....R U KIDDING ME???C'mon.

    Communication was sketchy...

    No urgency or desire to get a replacement...

    Doesn't care that they had an *agreement* through the trade system...

    Do I need to go any further???

    Also, our trade system is not perfect by all means, but we need to use it to our advantage.

    If he leaves nuetral, the trader still has 100% feedback, even if he leaves the appropriate feedback in the commentary. C'mon...I'm embarrassed to say this BA will have the same 100% feedback as myself and many others who strive to do what's right to maintain the integrity of the system and make trading fun.

    If he leaves *negative*, with appropriate feedback in the commentary, chances are he won't pull this BS again, and at the very least....clearly warns others, as his feedback won't be 100%.

    Just my 2 cents

    Cheers!
     
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  8. Heretic42

    Heretic42 Savant (1,118) Aug 31, 2011 Texas

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  9. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

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  10. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
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  11. JavaNoire

    JavaNoire Savant (1,163) Dec 4, 2010 Iowa

    Negative. The nonchalance & attitude displayed by the bad trader, after brazenly reneging on the trade & drinking the promised beer, is -as the OP noted- shitty. In my world shitty isn't neutral.

    Formally accepting a trade request on BA is a serious commitment. Refusing to honor that commitment deserves negative fb which will warn others & help to preserve the integrity of the trade system.
     
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  12. JavaNoire

    JavaNoire Savant (1,163) Dec 4, 2010 Iowa

    @TheTruth you should tag him in this thread. If/when you do @dmbforever can move it to the bad trader forum.

    If warned, I suspect that many members would prefer to avoid this guy. Trading has enough unavoidable risks. Out this BA. For those that read here he'll be an avoidable risk.
     
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  13. Immortale25

    Immortale25 Grand Pooh-Bah (3,775) May 13, 2011 North Carolina
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    I agree with Java. This seems to be an open-and-shut case of you leaving negative feedback saying something like "Drank the beer he/she agreed to trade with me. When asked to make it right, went radio silent" Simple as that. Pressing that button is extremely important and the more we let crap like this slide, the less useful the feedback system becomes.
     
  14. TheTruth

    TheTruth Initiate (0) Oct 13, 2015 Wisconsin

    I left him neutral feedback originally but then started thinking he deserved negative. I stated that he drank the beer, etc. How do I change trade feedback?
     
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  15. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
    Trader

    @TheTruth

    Hey there,

    To change feedback, simply follow the steps below.

    (1) *Click* on your trade *stats*
    (2) Go to top of page where your feedback says *sent*
    (3) *Click* on sent and look for the trade feedback you left for the trader
    (4) At end of feedback is an *edit* button

    BM me if you need further assistance,
    Cheers!
    Dave
     
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  16. TheTruth

    TheTruth Initiate (0) Oct 13, 2015 Wisconsin

    And amazingly, as soon as I left him negative feedback he is blowing up my inbox on BA (after not hearing from him for 3 weeks) about how immature I am and not my own man for asking others what feedback I should leave. The two longest messages he has sent me in all our discussions was today. Wish he would have been this passionate about not drinking our agreed upon trade or making the trade right when he did.
     
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  17. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
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    Amazing how that works, isn't it? His behavior confirms what many suspected all along, not someone most of us would want to trade with.
     
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  18. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
    Trader

    @TheTruth Please BM the traders name. I would like to follow along and make sure he leaves positive feedback for you.

    Thank you!
     
  19. gopens44

    gopens44 Grand Pooh-Bah (3,560) Aug 9, 2010 Virginia
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    Upon seeing a neutral rating, most potential traders, I would think, would be intrigued enough to investigate why it wasn't positive since positives are the norm.

    Since the rating system only has three choices, anything other than positive would throw up a red flag. In this case, as others have mentioned, no beer was exchanged. To play Devil's Advocate; with regard to the outcome where this nonchalant, seemingly jerky person is holding the same rating as good traders, would we deem it appropriate to give this fellow the same grade as the KBBS "refoiler" or many, many other asshats that thoroughly screwed their trade partner? To me it seems excessive to lump someone into that crowd despite nobody actually shipping. Maybe there needs to be a fourth rating - call it "difficult and/or misfire through jerkiness"

    The OP seems very communicative and persistent to a fault. I'll have to admit, after getting the "we drank it" message, I would have washed my hands of this trade and looked elsewhere. My thoughts would be that no good could come from pursuing further.
     
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  20. Immortale25

    Immortale25 Grand Pooh-Bah (3,775) May 13, 2011 North Carolina
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    Respectfully disagree with these points. First off, yes, when I'm about to start a trade with a new person I read through all their feedback to see if there are neutral ratings. But not all traders do this and the system is designed to protect the trading community. Additionally, I've traded with people who have 200+ logged BA trades and scanning their feedback can be a bit tedious. Second, the KBBS re-waxer and others that stoop to such low levels of douchebaggery get banned. To say that negative feedback should only be reserved for infractions of that caliber or even a notch or two under would make the negative score virtually useless since a bad trader thread would always need to be made and/or the action of Mods would always be required. There's no need for a fourth score. Negative feedback is simply for people who did not hold up their end of the trade. Whether beer was lost or not shouldn't matter in this case. In fact, I'll bet when this guy was pondering drinking the bottle in question, something to the effect of "Well, he didn't send/give me any beer yet, so I'm gonna drink this" was going through his head. Lastly, you may be fine with having an open trade hanging in your trading stats until it gets purged, but I would find it annoying and borderline offensive to log in every day and go "Oh yeah, that dickhole that never followed through with the trade." My idea of "washing my hands" would be to give the deserved negative feedback and moving on.

    The worst that's going to happen to this guy is people are going to ask him to ship first for a while until his percentage starts going back up. Giving neutral feedback would imply that "Expectations were met...but," however expectations were not met. OP gave dude 5, count 'em, 5 extra chances to complete the trade and dude just shrugged him off. I believe he'll think twice about being solid on a trade before he pushes the "Accept" button again.
     
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