Possible bad trader?: (resolved) @TheIPAHunter

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  1. JayORear

    JayORear Grand Pooh-Bah (3,058) Feb 22, 2012 California
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    This, of course, has me extremely interested . . . is there a thread on this somewhere?
     
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  2. JayORear

    JayORear Grand Pooh-Bah (3,058) Feb 22, 2012 California
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    I know I've been relatively quiet here after my original post, but re: deleting his account, my only issue is that he then has zero incentive to try to remedy the situation.
     
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  3. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
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    While I do agree with the above....if he has not fixed the situation by now....he never will. He obviuosly does not care, nor has any incentive for the last 7 weeks.
     
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  4. Beer_Economicus

    Beer_Economicus Pooh-Bah (2,698) Apr 8, 2017 Ohio
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    Not to be rude, but isn't the last page of discussion the basic question of "can he respond?" I thought we were now discussing that he might be incapacitated, and as such has not been around, rather than circling back to the first round of posts, which was "it's been far too long, and he got defensive. He won't be coming back."

    Also, I am confused. Todd's first message said that he had not logged in "in over 3 weeks." Is it actually 7 weeks? Makes a pretty big difference here in terms of the degree of leniency to give. My understanding was that it was 3 not 7 from the WBAYDN post.
     
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  5. John_M

    John_M Grand High Pooh-Bah (6,849) Oct 25, 2003 Washington
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    Unless a subsequent post was deleted by someone, his history shows he was last on BA back on 6/6/18. If you check his profile page, it indicates he was last seen 6 weeks and 6 days ago.
     
  6. RuckIt

    RuckIt Pundit (940) Apr 29, 2008 Massachusetts
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    Or Option "C" - he's truly sick, lashed out in frustration at the OP due to his ongoing serious health issues, and is now either back in the hospital or laying low in recovery.

    I think the "Bad Trader" tag is sufficient here, and leaving this thread open for a bit in the hopes that the BT recovers and is able to come back and make things right. Deleting his account I'm sure would alienate him and closes the door on that option.
     
  7. John_M

    John_M Grand High Pooh-Bah (6,849) Oct 25, 2003 Washington
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    IMO, this is certainly a possibility.

    My only question is how much longer would you suggest we wait. I don't know what sort of medical problems @TheIPAHunter has, or for that matter if he even has any medical problems. However, radio silence since early June? That's someone who would have to be very, very sick. Not that that isn't possible, but so sick that he's completely incapable of communicating for over a month. Again, it's certainly possible (and if that's the case then @TheIPAHunter certainly has my sympathy), but it does strain the bounds of credibility somewhat.
     
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  8. GreenBayBA

    GreenBayBA Grand Pooh-Bah (4,265) Aug 30, 2015 Wisconsin
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    I just talked to @TheIPAHunter about this thread, which he was not aware of. He will respond.
     
  9. JayORear

    JayORear Grand Pooh-Bah (3,058) Feb 22, 2012 California
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    Just heard from @TheIPAHunter. I suggested that responding to this thread would be a good idea.
     
  10. TheIPAHunter

    TheIPAHunter Grand High Pooh-Bah (6,026) Aug 12, 2007 California
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    Hello, everyone. While I haven't taken the time to read all these posts, thanks to a concerned BA, I understand the basic premise. I think everyone is allowed to have an opinion on the matter, good or bad. Anyone who's active on this site knows that I've made an appearance almost daily for a good amount of years. Yes, it would take something serious to keep me away. While I do think there's a point that real life medical issues trump beer trading, I understand that rules are rules. I have reached out to @JayORear directly concerning this matter, which I hope to resolve next week. He is welcome to share with everyone what I told him. I do not wish to be banned from a site I've supported faithfully for many years, but that decision is out of my hands. I wish everyone the best of health, and I hope that I'm able to get LARRRGE on here in the near future. Cheers.
     
  11. JayORear

    JayORear Grand Pooh-Bah (3,058) Feb 22, 2012 California
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    @TheIPAHunter, the point isn't about medical issues trumping beer trading, it's about good communication and common decency. I think where most of us are hung up on is you taking the time to lash out, in a lengthly paragraph, and not simply apologizing and saying you needed more time. (And also disappearing completely after that.) That's all it would have taken to avoid this. I would urge you to read over the last couple of pages . . . I think you'll find people, even me, have been pretty even-handed, wanting to give you the benefit of the doubt over and over.

    Thanks for offering to send a box this week; I'll keep an eye out for it.
     
  12. rozzom

    rozzom Pooh-Bah (2,620) Jan 22, 2011 New York
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    Exactly. What's easier when you have hard life shit going on?

    This:

    Bad trader? Hey, by all means. I just got out of the hospital. Not sure if you've paid attention to threads in the past and, if not, that's ok. I have ongoing health issues. My girlfriend got your beer, but I haven't even touched it. Crazy to me that you would even suggest a bad trader move, but I get it. This is real life. People on beer advocate apparently aren't real. Cheers, sir.
    TheIPAHunter, Jun 6, 2018


    I'm happy to hear you've done so many trades. I understand what it's like to have family members that are ill. That said, have you ever been sick? Like really sick? I hope someone will exercise a certain degree of patience with you should that ever interrupt your daily actions. I'm going to be honest man, you are coming off like a pompous individual. I believe you're better than that. Why don't you just shit on my reputation and get it over with? Cheers. As far as communication goes, it's kinda hard when you're hooked up to tubes. FYI, I haven't touched your beers or any beers for that matter. I can't.
    TheIPAHunter, Jun 7, 2018


    Hello, everyone. While I haven't taken the time to read all these posts, thanks to a concerned BA, I understand the basic premise. I think everyone is allowed to have an opinion on the matter, good or bad. Anyone who's active on this site knows that I've made an appearance almost daily for a good amount of years. Yes, it would take something serious to keep me away. While I do think there's a point that real life medical issues trump beer trading, I understand that rules are rules. I have reached out to @JayORear directly concerning this matter, which I hope to resolve next week. He is welcome to share with everyone what I told him. I do not wish to be banned from a site I've supported faithfully for many years, but that decision is out of my hands. I wish everyone the best of health, and I hope that I'm able to get LARRRGE on here in the near future. Cheers.


    Or this:

    Sorry man had a serious medical issue. Given this was just a local IPA for local IPA trade is it cool if I venmo you for cost + shipping? If not I'll have my gf arrange, please just bear with me/her as it may take a couple more weeks

    The outcome (looks like will be) the same in both cases. Keep us posted @JayORear and seriously @TheIPAHunter I really hope you're doing alright
     
  13. maximum12

    maximum12 Grand Pooh-Bah (4,686) Jan 21, 2008 Minnesota
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    I don't believe so...the long thread about him was purged, and the event/s were over six years ago.

    Long story short, from memory: mikesgroove was one of those guys doing multiple trades a week, for years. He was highly respected as a porch bomber, & very active on the site.

    What happened is he decided to turn full thief. Despite a long & decorated history, & all at once, he started stiffing people on trades. Because he was MIKESGROOVE, for all that's holy, those he screwed were more than patient, & the scam didn't come to light for quite some time. The culmination was that he started soliciting beer for another BA who was in the hospital, in order to sell to "cover his expenses" or "celebrate when he was out", I can't recall which. This came as a complete surprise to the patient when he found out.

    Then followed the slow-motion car wreck of accusations, first a trickle, then a flood. Mikesgroove started out defending himself, then stopped responding, & was either banned or never returned. But it turned out that his stellar rep protected him from several people who he hadn't shipped promised beer to, & a number of traders got the shaft.

    So when us old-timers snort derisively when someone says "I've been around" or "I contribute a lot" or pretty much just what IPAHunter said above, it's because there's been precedent set. Doesn't matter how fine a contributor you are - we've seen the best go very, very bad.
     
  14. TheIPAHunter

    TheIPAHunter Grand High Pooh-Bah (6,026) Aug 12, 2007 California
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    I'm not asking for leniency from anyone. I am trying to be humble. I will make good on my promise to @JayORear, rest assured. I think we all deal with difficult situations differently. I will be the first to say that I handled mine poorly. Again, wishing everyone the best.
     
  15. TheIPAHunter

    TheIPAHunter Grand High Pooh-Bah (6,026) Aug 12, 2007 California
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    Thank you, sir.
     
  16. Beer_Economicus

    Beer_Economicus Pooh-Bah (2,698) Apr 8, 2017 Ohio
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    Guarded optimism, but it looks like things will turn out positively. Very glad that we kept this going, and that @TheIPAHunter is coming in, hat in hand, and looking to make good.

    Always refreshing to see such a change of pace from some of the bad traders of the past.

    Hope you (are) make(ing) a swift recovery.
     
  17. njk82

    njk82 Initiate (0) Dec 10, 2015 Virginia

    Yup, this. Came in, apologized for how he handled the situation, pledged to make it right.

    Honestly all I ever want to see in these cases.

    Hope @TheIPAHunter is recovering.
     
  18. UcDru

    UcDru Maven (1,363) Aug 15, 2013 Ohio
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    I would argue this decision is in your hands and it seems you are willing to fulfill duties that will keep you an active contributor to this site again when your time/health allows.

    Great response.
     
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  19. JayORear

    JayORear Grand Pooh-Bah (3,058) Feb 22, 2012 California
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    Plus . . . actually making it right. Will let you all know if/when a box is received. Until then, let's keep the thread open, please.
     
  20. brutalfarce

    brutalfarce Pooh-Bah (1,551) Mar 23, 2018 Connecticut
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    nice to see @TheIPAHunter is alright and while health and life always trump beer the premise of beer trading is built on mutual respect and open communication hopefully all ends well and @JayORear gets what he deserves
     
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