"I guess I have to..."

Discussion in 'Beer Talk' started by MrDave, Oct 17, 2014.

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  1. MrDave

    MrDave Initiate (0) Jan 23, 2013 California

    "Jesus, they have a Cantillon on tap? I guess I have to go with that."

    "Whoa, bottles of Parabola just sitting here on the shelf? I guess I have to get at least one."

    "WTF?! This Pliny was bottled this morning? I guess I have to get it."

    We all do this, right? Why?

    I'm learning to stop doing it. Last night I was at a beer bar in Oakland and Goose just did their Migration thing and had left. There were still bottles of BCBCS 2012 for take away at $20 ea. Even though the coffee was surly faded significantly, I had to, right? I passed...
     
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  2. TonyLema1

    TonyLema1 Pooh-Bah (2,890) Nov 19, 2008 South Carolina
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    You showed a lot more self control than I would have, I probably would have gone out and sold some plasma (or any other desired bodily fluid) and and come back for another bottle of BCBCS!
     
  3. rozzom

    rozzom Pooh-Bah (2,620) Jan 22, 2011 New York
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    I would have struggled to walk away from that - respect dude
     
  4. Andrew041180

    Andrew041180 Initiate (0) Mar 15, 2013 Massachusetts

    I can count on exactly zero fingers how many times I have encountered such situations. Therefore, if such a situation did arise I would have no problem saying yes.
     
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  5. richobrien

    richobrien Initiate (0) Dec 29, 2013 California

    Much respect. Would not have been able to stop myself.
     
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  6. tkdchampxi

    tkdchampxi Pooh-Bah (2,473) Oct 19, 2010 New Jersey
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    I do my best to show self-control when faced with the myriad of good beers I pass by all the time. The other day, I passed up River Horse's Small Batch Barrel-Aged Tripel Horse and Small Batch Barrel-Aged Berliner Weisse. It was a bit easier, because they weren't well-reviewed or world renowned, but they were still extremely rare, limited releases that I had not previously tried and probably would never have access to again. C'est la vie.

    I find it especially hard to pass up beers I've never tried, and probably won't have access to again. It's a bit easier when it's something like Parabola, when I know I already have a bottle of it at home.
     
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  7. SoCalBeerIdiot

    SoCalBeerIdiot Pooh-Bah (2,191) Mar 10, 2013 California
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    I don't even like BBA beers that much and even I couldn't have passed that up. Had much the same situation happen when I got a tour of a restaurant's "private reserve" cellar back home--they had 2013 BCBCS sitting on the shelves. $16.99 for 12oz. Yeah, I bought it. I drank it shortly after I got back here to CA and there was still some coffee in it. No regrets.
     
  8. Lochnessmonster

    Lochnessmonster Initiate (0) Dec 4, 2013 Florida

    You're a stronger man than I. The only time I've been able to show restraint is when the wife is with me...and she give me "the look."
     
  9. MrDave

    MrDave Initiate (0) Jan 23, 2013 California

    The wife was with me too. And she's a beer drinker that knows and loves the magic that is BCBCS. In fact, she frowned when I explained that we probably shouldn't get it. I had to explain to her that I opened a 2012 bottle of it with her Dad last November (2013) and while it was good, it wasn't the awesomeness she knows (2013 bottles, enjoyed in early 2014).
     
  10. EricTKole

    EricTKole Initiate (0) Jan 4, 2014 Michigan

    Amen brother.
     
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  11. yemenmocha

    yemenmocha Grand Pooh-Bah (4,116) Jun 18, 2002 Arizona
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    You guys have way too much willpower.

    These examples turn into hangover situations for me.
     
  12. tabascosigned

    tabascosigned Initiate (0) Oct 4, 2012 Virginia

    This happened to me last night, though at a lesser extent.

    I flipped over a bottle of MBC Lunch...I think my voice cracked.
    Walking out of the store (after purchasing of course) I reflected on my fan-boy reaction and felt a little less about myself.

    I don't understand it; it's just a bottle of beer, right?
    it's just a something of something.
     
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  13. breadwinner

    breadwinner Initiate (0) Mar 6, 2014 California

    Totally on board, OP. Been trying to learn the discipline of really thinking through my beer purchases, rather than reflexively saying, "Oh, man, that's so hard to find! I have to get it!" Because that sentiment doesn't really address the more important question of, "I have finite resources. And I like some beer more than others. Do I really actually want this beer, or do I want it because I know it's hard to find? Is the purchase of this beer really worth not having X dollars for something else I'd like?"

    I ran across a bottle of NB Le Terroir last night for $5 cheaper than anywhere else around town. I really like that beer and had been wanting to get one, but wasn't keen on the price. In this case, I readily snapped it up. But, I've just as readily walked past bottles of Parabola (and I'm a major FW fanboy), as well as Pliny, because, like I said, resources are finite, and I just didn't need them.
     
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  14. 57md

    57md Grand Pooh-Bah (3,033) Aug 22, 2011 Pennsylvania
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    Kudos to you.

    Honestly, I've found a $1 per ounce limit works well for me. Whenever I go over that, I tend to be rather disappointed with my purchase.
     
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  15. MrDave

    MrDave Initiate (0) Jan 23, 2013 California

    Yeah, I did that one for a while, which quickly turned into me breaking the rule for special exceptions (Black Tuesday, Stone BA Espresso RIS, BA Speedway...), so it didn't work out so well. I'm trying to think less about self-imposed rules - which for me seem made to break - and more about "yeah, but do I really want it as much as I think I do?" I sorta feel like when we give in to these "gotta get it" moments, we contribute toward some of the same things many of us find frustrating about the beer world (hype, rarity, hoarding, rising costs...).
     
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  16. Jirin

    Jirin Initiate (0) Apr 28, 2013 Massachusetts

    I would definitely seize rare opportunities like that if they were presented to me. It's not a matter of some addictive response to stimulus, it's a matter of balancing a choice you can make any day against a choice you can only make right now.
     
  17. MrDave

    MrDave Initiate (0) Jan 23, 2013 California

    Yes, but it is still a choice. Some of us sometimes act as if it isn't. Any consideration of walking away is quickly muted by the voice of fear that says "You fool, you are throwing out an opportunity so many would kill for! This will never happen again!"
     
  18. BMMillsy

    BMMillsy Initiate (0) Feb 16, 2012 Florida

    In France last month I went to a place with four Armand'4 bottles at $62 a pop. If not for my wife being there, all four, as well as probably 10 additional Cantillon bottles would have been coming home with me from there. Unfrotunately, I she was there and I only left with Herfst, 2x LPK, and 2x St. Lam.
     
  19. KnowYourCraft

    KnowYourCraft Initiate (0) Jun 6, 2014 California

    Had the first bottled batch of BCBCS from 2010 a few months ago, coffee didn't drop off at all...
     
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  20. 57md

    57md Grand Pooh-Bah (3,033) Aug 22, 2011 Pennsylvania
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    Excellent points all.

    I think that the ratio limit works for me as a "yellow light" (purchase with caution and forethought) rather than a strict "red light" (don't buy at all).

    Of the whales that I’ve actually been able to track down, more often than not I have found those beers to be disappointing in the context of their taste versus their price and the difficulty of attainment.

    We all contribute to the “hype, rarity, hoarding, rising costs...” every time we purchase a whale. I suppose that when I actually do pull the trigger, I want to know that I am doing so with solid forethought rather than based upon knee jerk reactions.
     
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