Bad Trader @djkuback: *Resolved*

Discussion in 'Bad Traders' started by LambicPentameter, Jun 22, 2017.

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  1. LambicPentameter

    LambicPentameter Initiate (0) Aug 29, 2012 Nebraska

    I'm no newbie to trading, but I have a situation and I'd love some input on how others would handle it. I've been out of BA trading for several months now, so my etiquette sensor is a little bit rusty, methinks.

    Background: Set up a trade with another user. Pretty easy "negotiation" period and came to basic terms fairly quickly.

    Terms: each person sends 2 specific, agreed upon bottles + ~$20-30 worth of goodies/extras. The reason that is relevant is because he offered to send first so that I could look at the unspecified goodies and send back what I thought was fair. I almost told him that I wasn't worried about that and that we could send at the same time until I took a peek at his trading feedback.

    He had a 97% rate due to one Neutral feedback in the past and one Bad feedback in the past. In both cases, the general issue was delays in shipping his box. I'm a firm believer in second chances, so I told him I was good with him shipping first and told him that it had nothing to do with checking the $20-30 worth of extra bottles and everything to do with his former bad feedback.

    Finalization: He owned his past transgressions, we exchanged addresses, trade request was sent/accepted and he said he would ship Friday (6/9). All the trade finalization happened on Wednesday (6/7) and that was also the last time I heard anything. Now we're going on 2 weeks without any communication. I haven't reached out myself yet because I haven't taken on any risk, and honestly at this point I kind of just want to call off the trade. Which leads me to my...

    Questions:
    1. Is it fair for me to call off the trade? I ask because, as noted, we have an official trade in the system and under normal circumstances, I know that agreeing to a trade request is about as binding as trading agreements get around here.

    2. If I call off the trade, is there a way to actually cancel it? Or do I have to just wait the eternity of 180 days to let it expire?
    Ultimately, I don't want to hassle with it anymore. But since I already agreed to the trade, I'm not sure if I have an obligation to let it play out and give him a chance to hold up his end of the deal. In hindsight, I wish I had actually searched for and read through the Bad Trader thread that was referenced in the Bad feedback he received. Had I done that, I probably would have passed on the trade altogether. He didn't steal any beer, but showed some major shortcomings in communication and following through on his promises.

    Thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts. I'm keeping the user's name private for now, but I can certainly share it, especially if people feel this officially needs to be added to his already troubling record.
     
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  2. maximum12

    maximum12 Grand Pooh-Bah (4,686) Jan 21, 2008 Minnesota
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    1. More than fair to call off the trade. Two weeks is more than reasonable to wait for a box to ship. On the other hand, I've had people ship without notification, so you may want to reach out & formally say "Hey, we're done here" just in case.
    2. Opinions will vary, but I think you'd be justified in leaving neutral feedback with a succinct message about your experience. I know I don't want to trade with people like this, & the more "red flags" in their trading history, the less chance the next person will get burned. And yes, I'm pretty sure the open trade will hang around a long time.

    I've always felt that if something doesn't feel right about the other trader, that going through with it will lead to more pain than just cutting the cord. Two weeks is ridiculous, especially for someone as prompt as yourself. Bail! Bail!
     
  3. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    Send him a note, ask him if he has shipped, if not, tell him not to bother.
     
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  4. SammyJaxxxx

    SammyJaxxxx Initiate (0) Feb 23, 2012 New Jersey

    "He owned his past transgressions..." and decide to commit another.
    Has he responded to you at all?
     
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  5. LambicPentameter

    LambicPentameter Initiate (0) Aug 29, 2012 Nebraska

    I haven't spent the time to inquire yet. I don't always have time to babysit and without bearing any risk on my part, the urgency just wasn't there.

    That said, I'm going to ping him today and tell him if he hasn't shipped yet, that I'd just like to call off the trade.
     
  6. mythaeus

    mythaeus Pooh-Bah (2,074) Jul 22, 2013 Pennsylvania
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    Barring proofs of circumstances beyond his control, I would *state* with 100% certainty that the trade is off if he hasn't shipped and given you a tracking #. Anything less, he'll string you along again through promises. I've seen it too often already. I wouldn't want to complete the trade at this point at all. I'd leave a neutral feedback as minimum. 2 poor feedback and 2 weeks with no indication of shipment, it's more than warranted to let people know not to give him another chance.
     
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  7. Jaycase

    Jaycase Grand Pooh-Bah (3,858) Jan 13, 2007 Illinois
    BA4LYFE Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    Odd case. The other trader offered to ship first. Would they still have flaked out (seemingly) if you had not brought up their past feedback and just had them ship first as they had originally suggested? We'll likely never know. Bizarre.
     
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  8. Beer_Economicus

    Beer_Economicus Pooh-Bah (2,698) Apr 8, 2017 Ohio
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    Not to harp on the staff, but this is another great example of why feedback getting erased when only one side leaves feedback is absolutely silly. It incentivizes people that are bad traders to not leave feedback and allow their bad-trade feedback to get deleted, artificially raising their rating after the feedback window has closed.
     
  9. taplebr

    taplebr Zealot (585) Apr 7, 2015 Arkansas
    Trader

    I think I know this guy. Same issue with me a year ago. The guy in question has a 97% rating with one negative and one neutral rating. I asked a similar question and I even had a mod take a look at our convo as a gut check to make sure I wasn't out of line if I bailed on trade (see link below). I essentially gave him an ultimatum (which he fell through on) and I walked away. I would go so far to say don't ship until you receive your box. He did ship but said he got a message a bottle broke and his box got shipped back. I never shipped and after a couple months the trade in the system was purged.

    https://www.beeradvocate.com/community/threads/communication-issues-and-what-to-do.411836/
     
  10. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    @Todd can this loophole be fixed? It undermines the integrity of the trade system.
     
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  11. maximum12

    maximum12 Grand Pooh-Bah (4,686) Jan 21, 2008 Minnesota
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    Knowing that even if neutral feedback is given, the trade is likely going to vanish eventually, I personally would appreciate it if one of the two parties here would name the trader in question. Perhaps you can dodge the feedback system, but you can't dodge your name getting put in a bad trader thread. And I don't want to deal with this person without knowing the full history.
     
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  12. taplebr

    taplebr Zealot (585) Apr 7, 2015 Arkansas
    Trader

    If @LambicPentameter confirms it is the same guy and a mod weighs in, I'd be happy to disclose. But I don't feel it's right to name a guy without knowing it's the same one (my issue was a full year ago so it could be a coincidence).
     
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  13. LambicPentameter

    LambicPentameter Initiate (0) Aug 29, 2012 Nebraska

    Honestly, at this point, anyone who wants to know who it is can do some amateur sleuthing and find out pretty easily. I only have one open trade right now.

    But in the interest of wrapping this up and shutting it down, I'll summarize where I ended up:
    1. Reached out to user djkuback after I got some answers on this thread and told him if he hadn't already shipped, that I wanted to call off the trade because I didn't want to deal with the hassle.
    2. He responded and said he could ship this weekend if I was still interested but otherwise he understood.
    3. I told him thanks, but I wanted to just call it off and that's where his and my interaction ended.
    4. I did end up reaching out to @F2brewers in a private message to get some input on leaving/not leaving feedback since no trade was technically completed. I won't go into the details of that conversation, but came away thinking that leaving neutral feedback, although valuable to the trading community, was more hassle than it's worth. End scene.
    Now, the reason I ultimately decided not to leave any feedback is due, in no small part, to the loophole that @Beer_Economicus and @jrnyc mentioned. The likelihood of djkuback leaving feedback at all was low when he can just let the trade expire and any neutral/bad feedback disappears. So what's the point? Especially when it could open me up to retaliatory feedback and all the drama that might come with it (even though in the long run, the retaliatory feedback would be purged since it's against the rules).

    To me, the fairest solution is to mention the trader's name here, let the trade expire and move on.

    I'll let the mods decide if this needs to be moved into the Bad Trader forum, but I do think it would be useful to close down comments on the thread since this was about a specific situation and it has, in my mind, been wrapped up.

    Thoughts? @F2brewers @blue-dream @dmbforever @John_M
     
  14. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

  15. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
    Trader

    I'll address with a reply after work.

    Cheers!
     
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  16. cducap

    cducap Initiate (0) Mar 27, 2011 Indiana

    It seems when you have a habitual line-stepper like this, it would be best to yank their trading privileges. While this time did not cross into the Bad Traderverse, the only reason it didn't is the OP was smart enough to ask this guy to ship first.

    This person will do it gain.
     
  17. Jaycase

    Jaycase Grand Pooh-Bah (3,858) Jan 13, 2007 Illinois
    BA4LYFE Society Pooh-Bah Trader

    Actually if you read the OP, the trader in question originally offered to send first. To their credit, they were proactively self-policing.:wink:
     
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  18. maximum12

    maximum12 Grand Pooh-Bah (4,686) Jan 21, 2008 Minnesota
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    I don't think anyone has tagged @djkuback so they might not even know about this thread.

    I agree, anyone with multiple strikes like this should not be trading, either through a self-imposed ban or one from the outside. Self-awareness is a beautiful thing.
     
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  19. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
    Trader

    Leaving Feedback
    When you're ready to leave feedback, go to your Open trades, find the trade item, and confirm that you're ready. The feedback form will then appear.
    • Feedback should only be left if one or both traders have shipped.
    Taken directly from our site ^^^^^^

    @LambicPentameter
     
  20. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    This needs to be fixed too. Once trade request is accepted, feedback should be fair game. Another loophole here that helps bad traders and misses an opportunity to inform the rest of the community.
     
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