How to proceed with flakey trader?

Discussion in 'Trade Talk' started by srgehl, Dec 17, 2016.

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  1. srgehl

    srgehl Crusader (437) Oct 22, 2014 New Jersey

    I recently posted a trade in ISO:FT (Breweriana)

    the next day a BA user started a conversation with me... let's call them BAtrader as I'm not ready to call anyone out yet. Our conversation goes as follows:

    -I have that if still searching
    BAtrader, Dec 9, 2016

    -ya still looking, any chance you could sent a picture of it so I could see the condition... if you like you could email me a picture *****@gmail.com
    srgehl, Dec 9, 2016

    -Send when I get home
    BAtrader, Dec 9, 2016

    -if its in good condition i'd do the hill farmstead and tree house tasters for it
    srgehl, Dec 10, 2016

    -Got your email with the pic of the glass. I'm interested in trading. What do you say?
    srgehl, Dec 10, 2016

    -Yea any other glasses you have or want. Let's add some beer to it. What's around you for ipas
    BAtrader, Dec 10, 2016
    (This was where the conversation seemed to get a little suspicious to me)

    -I don't have any other glasses to trade and my beer fridge is full at the moment but I'd add some beer to my end if you have any other christmas glasses.
    srgehl, Dec 10, 2016

    -Would love some beers and I thought the hf was the reg ballon size glass how much do those hold. I have a couple Christmas pint glasses
    BAtrader, Sunday at 4:39 PM

    -Both glasses go for like $5
    srgehl, Sunday at 6:12 PM
    (I read their last message to quickly on my phone and thought they said how much the glasses cost)

    -Ya I have way too Many pint glasses. I could do the glass and some beer if you want
    srgehl, Sunday at 6:13 PM
    (I was getting the feeling that this deal wasn't going to happen if some beer wasn't add. I assumed maybe BAtrader didn't want to go through the hassle of shipping just one glass)

    -Awesome what beer you have
    BAtrader, Sunday at 6:30 PM

    -What style do you like? Want to do locals for locals
    srgehl, Sunday at 6:39 PM

    -Yes please I like ipas and sours
    BAtrader, Sunday at 7:01 PM

    -Cool, I like any style doesn't matter stouts IPAs sours etc... would you like to do 5 12oz beers and the glasses? We could make it shippers choice on the beers? You pick out some good locals and I'll do the same.
    srgehl, Sunday at 7:08 PM

    -soudns good
    BAtrader, Monday at 10:28 AM

    -Sounds like a deal!
    I'll send you a trade request
    S*** G***
    670 G**** St
    M**** NJ 0****
    (***)-***-****
    srgehl, Monday at 10:42 AM
    (immediately sent a trade request after typing this)

    -Great
    N*** ****
    437 A***** St
    E******* IL 6****
    BAtrader, Monday at 11:03 AM

    -BAtrader said: ↑
    "Would love some beers and I thought the hf was the reg ballon size glass how much do those hold. I have a couple Christmas pint glasses"

    sorry I thought you said how much do those cost not hold. both I believe are 5oz tasting glasses
    srgehl, Monday at 11:48 AM

    -hey when do you think you'd be ready to send out my box... also you haven't accepted my trade request yet.
    srgehl, Wednesday at 7:12 PM
    (decided to post a reply in the convo seeing how I hadn't heard from them since monday morning. they read the post and then shortly after accepted my trade request)

    -Was looking to get that Noel glass for Christmas. Any chance you can't get your box out tomorrow or Saturday? I'm ready to ship.
    srgehl, Thursday at 9:11 PM

    -Yea tomorrow works
    BAtrader, Thursday at 9:55 PM

    -Awesome, just hit me up in this conversation when you have a tracking number
    srgehl, Thursday at 10:11 PM

    -The last time they looked at our conversation was yesterday, Friday at 7:57AM
    (END)

    It's now saturday and still no word back from them as to whether they shipped out my box. I feel like if I reply back now I'm going to get lead on more. I've completed 20 trades on BA now and everyone seems to be super quick and with great communitcation. It's just little things that BAtrader has done that make me anxious.

    -He took a couple of days to accept my request.
    -Didn't accept it until I mentioned it.
    -reads all the posts I send fairly quickly but doesn't reply back after reading
    -He seems to be more interested in trading for beer than the glasses.

    All those things aren't really troubling. I get it. It's the holidays and everyones busy, but when you combined that with some questionable feedback they've received in the past on trades it makes me think that I'm going to get left high and dry with no return box.

    BAtrader's reputation
    Good:55
    Okay:4 all before March 2016
    Bad:1 March 2016 (2 positive IP trades after this one)

    I have their box ready but I'm hesitant to send it out until they give me a tracking number.

    What do you guys think is the best way to proceed with the trade?
    Should I confront them in the conversation? Should I give them an ultimatum? I don't want this person to turn around and send me bad feedback for welshing on a deal.
    In all honesty, I think I'd prefer to just cancel the trade now. Is that even possible? The glass they are trading me was for a Christmas share I'm having and I doubt I'd have it in time by then even if they shipped out today.
     
  2. jrnyc

    jrnyc Grand Pooh-Bah (3,012) Mar 21, 2010 New York
    Pooh-Bah Trader

    I usually complain about not having enough info on these type of threads, no complaint here :slight_smile:! Need time to process this and respond.
     
    #2 jrnyc, Dec 17, 2016
    Last edited: Dec 17, 2016
  3. dmbforever

    dmbforever Initiate (0) May 8, 2013 Wisconsin
    Trader

    @srgehl

    Here is my advice:

    Politely message your trade partner and let them know, you will NOT be sending out your box until they provide a tracking#.

    Once they provide tracking#, monitor it for a day to make sure their package is in transit and that it's not just a *label created*.

    Then send your package if it's in transit.
    If you already have reservations about your trade partner, this is how I would handle the situation.

    Cheers,
    Dave
     
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