I just saw this today and it's a great reference for anyone in the state or that plans on visiting. Only thing missing is some sort of ratings/reviews portion. At least you can cross-ref w/ BA. http://www.ncbeerguys.com/nc-bottle-shops/
As a heads up for the Wilmington trip, Cape Fear Wine and Beer is more of a bar than a bottle shop, however, they do sell beers to go. Lighthouse Beer and Wine out on Wrightsville Beach is my favorite shop. It's small but they carry a lot of good beer and they staff is awesome. If you want to hit another good beer bar while you're in town stop by Satellite.