Tipping

Discussion in 'United Kingdom & Ireland' started by Darwin553, Apr 17, 2012.

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  1. Darwin553

    Darwin553 Initiate (0) Jan 5, 2009 Australia

    Just to take this from the 'trip to London' thread, as my comments and some of the others are dragging it off-topic.

    I would just like to know what do you believe the main reason why UK drinkers don't tip or indeed why you don't tip given that bar workers are one of the lowest paid in the country and that London in particular is such an expensive place to live from my experience?

    Thoughts
     
  2. CwrwAmByth

    CwrwAmByth Grand Pooh-Bah (3,113) Jan 24, 2011 England
    Pooh-Bah

    Not exactly tough work to be honest, pouring a drink. Plus I don't know, it would feel odd tipping 10% on a £2 drink too. I generally dislike the culture of tipping and the follow up anger at people who don't tip because it shifts the blame of underpaid staff away from the employers to the customers, who are already paying quite high prices as it is
     
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  3. ImperialStoat

    ImperialStoat Initiate (0) May 20, 2009 Ireland

    Here's a question for you.

    I've worked a couple of minimum-wage retail jobs in London (about £5.60 an hour at the time). The work was unsatisfying and thankless but necessary. No-one tipped me. Why, apart from it being something established in your culture and therefore naturally ingrained you, is someone working at a bar more worthy of being tipped than someone who works a different poorly paid job? Why not tip the guy working in an off-license, who also has to make idle chat and deal with assholes, as well as stocking shelves and coping with deliveries?
    I don't have a problem with people being paid extra -- I have a problem with the arbitrariness of your argument.
     
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  4. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    Wait, so in the UK people don't tip bartenders?
     
  5. Ruds

    Ruds Initiate (0) Sep 15, 2008 England

    I think Essex Ale Man raised a most valid point in the other thread

    That being the welfare state in the UK

    So £5.93 is an appalling wage and should be tipped ?

    How much do bar staff in the US, for example, have to contribute for health care per month?

    £5.93 I agree is not a big wage but in the UK all your health care is laid on for you
     
  6. Ruds

    Ruds Initiate (0) Sep 15, 2008 England

    No - this has never been the custom although I did raise in the other thread that it is not uncommon to buy the barman/woman a drink occasionally

    Read the various points on this (and the other recent thread - visiting London) as to why
     
  7. marquis

    marquis Pooh-Bah (2,313) Nov 20, 2005 England
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    No, and there's no reason why they should. Just like in any other retail outlet the price posted is what you pay.It's not my job to pay the wages of someone who is employed by somebody else.
     
  8. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    What makes the bartender want to give you good service then?

    If we pulled that here we'd never get a drink on a busy night.
     
  9. Ruds

    Ruds Initiate (0) Sep 15, 2008 England

    If I got rushed into hospital in the US for an emergency operation, I'd get a big bill of many $$$, here I pay big fat nothing!

    Different cultures my friend!

    Service in a UK bar is generally fine, first come, first served, rarely a problem

    The tipping culture doesn't exist here so the barman doesn't expect to be tipped. They are there to maximise the sales for their pub, not maximise their own wallet by selectively serving people who tip more!!!

    As I've already stated when you work out the typical basic wage of a UK barman as opposed to a typical US basic, plus the state health benefits who gets the most overall!?!
     
  10. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    I find that pretty interesting overall as I've never been to the UK. Does the same apply to waitors/waitresses at restaurants there?
     
  11. meerkat2

    meerkat2 Initiate (0) Aug 27, 2007 Florida

    Keep in mind that minimum wage for tipped employees is drastically less than for non-tipped employees. I was paid $2.13/hour as a bartender (1.34£/hour).
    It also depends on what kind of drinks you serve. The "average" tip in the US is $1 per drink (less, if the customer orders in bulk). That doesn't change regardless of whether you open 50 bottles of beer in an hour or make 15 mojitos. In one case you would receive maybe $30-$40, and in the other case, $15. Those are extreme examples, however.
    This isn't necessarily For or Against your statements, just some information for those who were curious.
     
  12. Ruds

    Ruds Initiate (0) Sep 15, 2008 England

    At restaurants 10% is the norm

    However this is often a generational thing

    My parents don't believe in tipping and would leave a token gesture of say £2 on a £70 bill thinking they were doing the waiter a favour!!!

    For my generation (who in many cases have travelled a lot more than my parents) it has become the accepted norm

    You very rarely find anyone tip more than 10% in the UK - again, same minimum wage, health benefits etc apply

    I think I read somehwere recently that the 'average' UK tip was around 8% (probably people who don't beleive in it/people in my parents generation bringing it down a little!)

    Restaurants often build in a 10% service charge as standard
     
  13. jmw

    jmw Initiate (0) Feb 4, 2009 North Carolina

    Hey Hanzo,
    It is because service in the UK is mostly based on decency rather than bribery.
    [by the way, I still find your avatar extremely distracting]


    And this is it really. I don't know how the idea ever evolved that the US customer will pay a large portion of certain workers' salaries (but not others for some reason) directly to them instead of having it go to the establishment as sales which are then allocated back to the worker. But this never developed in UK. The barman has not been programmed to think that s/he has power over you and can leverage that into money in their own pockets. They are perfectly happy to supply drinks with respectful conversation and do it for a set wage.
     
  14. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    I would much prefer the UK system, because as it stands, even if I get poor service I still leave a tip out of guilt, because I know the person is relying on my tip to pay their bills. If I know they were making minimum wage, I likely wouldn't tip, or would tip very little.
     
  15. Ruds

    Ruds Initiate (0) Sep 15, 2008 England

    Tip guilt is indeed an issue! My US cousins suffer from it, I don't!

    To be fair, the service in the US is nearly always excellent as folks want their tips

    However when it falls short (ie multiple mistakes or forgotten orders) I will happily drop to 10% and one occasion in NYC didn't tip at all (think . . . vegetarian breakfast with bacon on it, non de-caff coffee for someone who has a bad reaction to it, one breakfast totally overlooked, everything coming 5 minutes apart, coffee spilt on me etc etc!!!)

    On such occasions I am happy to point out the shortcomings in their service and why they didn't get a full (or any tip) if challenged !

    I can only think of 2 or 3 such instances and the waitress didn't have the cheek to challenge us in the NYC breakfast scenario!
     
  16. jmw

    jmw Initiate (0) Feb 4, 2009 North Carolina

    Yes and, given enough time with a system such as this, the service would eventually stabilize at a satisfactory level as the notion of entitlement diminished. Your service worker would just do their job to their best knowing that they will be paid dependably. As it stands, the US system has flip-flopped: no longer an expectation of a good tip in exchange for stellar service, it has devolved into poor service unless there is a show of a healthy payoff.
     
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  17. gdodd12

    gdodd12 Initiate (0) Oct 1, 2009 Georgia

    See I am very strict with tipping. If you suck, you get nothing.

    I would prefer a no-tip system also. I feel like people want a tip for everything these days. I don't give them, but I feel people want them. I just don't see anyway in hell that happens. Restaurants will never agree to it as it would raise their costs. And they would then just pass those costs on to the customers.
     
  18. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    If it is a place I'll never go back to I have no problem stiffing someone for bad service, but if I plan to return?

    I just can't screw with people that handle my food/drink.
     
  19. CwrwAmByth

    CwrwAmByth Grand Pooh-Bah (3,113) Jan 24, 2011 England
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    We have this thing alot of people subscribe to called "not being a dick".
    See in the UK the staff doing this kind of stuff would get complaints and eventually fired!
     
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  20. Hanzo

    Hanzo Initiate (0) Feb 27, 2012 Virginia

    If only that we had that in the states. Here you have to be an attractive female or a good tipper to get good service in a bar. (with some exceptions)
     
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